Depending on what you really want, I wouldnt even talk to women for a long time. When my relationship blew up I tried the cliche go fuck ten other women. Luckily im a decent man whore so i managed to do so in about 6 weeks. But it didnt work. It made me miss her more because none of them compared somehow. They all had deal breakers and none were as good in bed as we were. I dont even know if that was really all true but to me it was.
Eventually I gave up and just focused on work and my house. A year later I randonly found a girl I like even more than my ex in every way and im glad I was free to act on it.
Just call it a day with her, with women, and change the subject.