I moved to the hometown of the girl I was in a 2-year long distance relationship with. I was there for a total of nine months before breaking up. The first few months were pretty great. But then I began to notice how non-affectionate she was, which was a problem for me because I’m a SUPER affectionate person (which ultimately you just can’t know in an LDR). By the time we broke up it turned out she had been unsure of her feelings for me for several months, which explained why kissing and other physical affection was difficult for her to do. It cut pretty deep.